Know the Warning Signs of Gambling Addiction

Gambling can be a fun activity for those who understand its potential to become an addiction. By keeping gambling in perspective as a form of entertainment, you can reduce the chances that you’ll become addicted. Here are some warning signs that could signal you’re becoming a problem gambler, someone who is unable to place reasonable limits on their gambling activities.

  • Lying about gambling. One warning sign is dishonesty about how much you gamble. Telling your family and friends you’re going to the mall and then sneaking off to a casino is a potential problem.
  • New financial problems. If you’re suddenly having trouble making ends meet between paychecks, ask yourself how much money you’ve spent on gambling in the last couple of weeks. It’s a good strategy to keep a written record of how much money you put into gambling know when you’ve hit your limit. (Be sure to establish a reasonable limit from the beginning.)
  • Unable to concentrate because you’re thinking about playing. Being distracted at work because you can’t stop thinking about your new poker strategy is going to cause some serious problems. You need to learn to direct your mind away from gambling when you’re away from the computer or casino. Then, when it is time to play, you can fully enjoy immersing yourself in the experience.
  • Increased alcohol consumption. Instead of thinking about the money you’ve spent on gambling you pop open (more than) a few beers. If you’re using alcohol or any other substance to escape the realities that a potential gambling addiction has caused, you may need counseling.

The good news is that few people who gamble develop a serious problem. For those who do, there’s counseling and mental health professionals who can help you regain control of your life.

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Beating the Drive to Gamble

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People who don’t have an addiction will probably never understand how pervasive and difficult it is to overcome an addiction. When you feel yourself wanting nothing else but to indulge in your vice, even when you don’t really want to, it’s an illness. You aren’t bleeding and you don’t have anything that shows up on an x-ray, but you have a sickness that is harder to beat than a broken bone and potentially as destructive as cancer.

While the 12 steps are based on solid principles, it can be very hard to stay out of a life that feels so comfortable. When you see the distant lights of the casino, it can trigger a rush so intense you can think of nothing but getting your next win. Sometimes winning isn’t even a part of the fantasy. All you need to do is be a part of the intense energy of a gambling floor. When your game of choice heats up, it can be like an orgasm. Losing is easy to justify, because it’s just your path to victory.

Unfortunately, losses can become massive faster than you can immediately imagine. Even when you lose, you still feel the urge to play more. As sad as it is, you can’t will yourself to only play once, or to stay away when it’s close at hand. For you to have any hope of a lasting recovery and sanity in your life, you have to keep as far away from placing bets as you possibly can. There is no responsible way to gamble if you can’t handle it with the natural moderation of a non-addict.

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